am disappointed in you, and I’ve got too many creative things to do in life to stay around”? Rather than risk that, he doesn’t bring up the subject. It’s like going to a doctor to check on a mole. We think we’d rather not know the facts. When my wife and I were expecting our first child, we went through a similar experience. I’d read books about women’s sensitivity during pregnancy, and so I stopped sharing some of my pressures at work in order to make her life easier. Two years later, I found out